It Don't Mean a Thing if it Ain't Got That Swing!

Firstly an apology for leaving so long between posts. I had a bit of a frenzy during May, posting lots of pics especially and have been busy elsewhere since. Also my damn phone line is cut off again so I can't access the net from home (Which means I can't post naughty photos as I would like!). Please remember that if you like the pics on here and want to see more, all you have to do is ask and I can send you some you haven't seen...or take some especially for you!

Also I am still greatly humbled to see that some of you avid readers/watchers come from all over the world. Please feel free to comment on posts or write to me if you like what you see or have something to say - I would love to hear from you, what you are like and what you like. Remember you can always send me photos for posting on Sexentricity as well...

In some ways not a lot out of the ordinary has been happening on the sex front. Sex with my g/f is always fantastic and after 3 years we are still having it regular satisfying sex. We are really well matched and our normal lovemaking tends to last a long time and involve several different positions and lots of delicious foreplay, masturbation, mutual masturbation, mutual oral, tit-fucking, rimming and spanking. We love to watch each other masturbate and she likes it if I come on her, whether its on her face, in her mouth, on her breasts, or on her ass. For me it feels almost territorial and also a little dominant (Something I am not wholly comfortable with).

Something we have been talking about a lot recently is the subject of group sex. Although we have talked about it before, we were both very aware of the potential pitfalls to a committed relationship. We live in a small town and the idea of playing around here is not appealing, and we are wary of starting anything with someone close by, which increases the likelihood of some sort of attachment.
For me it is partly about just wanting to experience a group of people being openly sexual. Part of it, is me wanting to express my bi-side and having further opportunity to explore a man's body, something which my g/f is keen to see me do (Which make it extra-hot). The other part of it for me is that with the understanding that my relationship is a committed one, I still want to have the opportunity to have sex or at least be around other woman sexually. I dont want to have 2 on the go or go behind my partners back but I dont want to miss out on the opportunity of feeling another womans touch.
For my g/f it is more to do with the 1st and the 3rd reasons. She finds the idea of open people being sexual together very exciting and she is really excited about the prospect of more than one man (An idea that thrills me too). She really isn't that into the idea of women (unlike many it seems) and although she does like breasts, she is basically not driven to explore further though she likes the idea of many hands, mouths etc. on er at once and in that scenario she wouldn't care too much whose hands, mouth etc. it was.

Our discussions on this issue have gone through all the usual permutations as to how this could happen. Firstly a 3 or 4-some with someone we know seems like a really bad idea. If you know them enough to include there is probably some attraction at work already and that makes it easier for one or another person to become too involved.
The next option is a 3 or 4-some with strangers. This is much more appealing and again my feeling is that it is still best not to see people again and again. It is a common fact that many couples who engage in swinging with regular partners often end up swapping permanently and that is not the idea!
The next option and the one we are really into is the idea of a swingers party. Somewhere we can have sex with multiple partners of both sexes and and each other in a sexy environment, with the bonus of the anonymity and one-off nature of a set event. Both of us are really into this idea or that of attending the annual fetish ball. Just to go somewhere where people are sexual and proud of it, somewhere where you can see people expressing themselves sexually without it being paid-entertainment, predominantly put on for men, like strip-shows.

Well at least we have decided how it could work for us. Now the challenge is to make it happen and see if the reality lives up to the fantasy. It's one of those things that won't happen unless you make it happen so the next step is probably up to me?

I am really interested to hear about other peoples experiences in this area or any thoughts you may have on this subject. Oh and of course if any of you have an invitation you would like to extend, please feel free...

Comic Strip Art - Part 2

The Shy Exhibitionist (Part 2)
Copyright Sexentric 09
Part 2 of photo based series of original prints in the style of erotic comic-strips, looking at exhibitionism and 21st century sex.

Thanx Ms.X

Looking Back to Look Forward

As I have gained a few more visitors over the last few weeks, I though it was a good idea to highlight what started me blogging in the first place.

A few years ago,in a marriage and a galaxy, far, far away, I was sexually frustrated. In an effort to divert some of this sexual tension, I decided to write up a few formative and memorable early experiences in my sexual life. These on reflection have shaped or at least refelected, many aspects of my sexuality.

Once written I put them on my first sex-blog 'StripMe'. Although I discontinued that blog, it did in essence become Sexentricity, and these stories came with it.

I hope you enjoy these stories and the clues they give to the Sexentric being I would become...

Sexual Recollections 1- Early Days, the Girl Next Door

Sexual Recollections 2 - Early Days, First Masturbation, Porn and First Hand-Job

Sexual Recollections 3 - Restraint and Submission and An Amazing Blow-Job

Sexual Recollections 4 - A Clandestine Affair

Sexual Recollections 5 - The Naked Snorkelling Voyeur Incident

Sexual Recollections 6 - First Proper Homosexual Experience

Grey Day for a Play

Just playing around, in a dark, grey way on a dark grey day

If you would like full uncut versions of any photos on Sexentricity orare interested in other pics I may have or have a request for a shoot, please write to seccentric@gmail.com

XXX

Who's a Dirty Old Man?

There is a conundrum that every man must face as he gets older. Whilst all men, mentally consider themselves at least as vital, sexy and smart as they were at 18, physically we are as prone to time, as gravity. As I approach 38, the hot, young ladies of legal age are now less than half of my age - OMG! has the time finally come to consider growing old gracefully and having the respect, to consign my fantasies and 'perving' to mature woman in my own age bracket?

Now dont get me wrong, I wouldnt want a relationship with a 20 year old woman for example and dont expect a 20yr old woman would want one with me. I have kids, emotional baggage, an ex-wife, I'm set in my ways and after 15 years of wild partying, I hardly drink and enjoy growing vegetables. On the plus side, I'm the same weight and build as I was at 20 (Quite a lot hairier though), still fit, still enjoying dressing in decent clothes rather than stonewash K-Mart bargains. I play the drums in an edgy band, make challenging art and retain an open mind and a subversive attitude. Not only that but I 'know' a thing or 2 about pleasuring a woman, a whole lot more than the socially inept, romantically lazy, 20-something boys (whom the girls fawn over), who boast to their mates about the awesome sex, they have (Even though it takes less time than Instant Noodles!). I am not saying this out of bitterness, I'm saying it because, once it was me (O.k not the Instant Noodle part lol).

I wouldnt want a relationship because my lifestyle and my entire sense of time and my priorities are completely different. But I would like to have long, hard rewarding sex with so many of them. Their young, tight bodies, blemishless skin, the fullness and the firmness of their curves, the coquettish bum-wiggling walks, the plunging neck lines, the ever-so-cute naivety and lack of self-confidence in their own gorgeousness and paradoxical aloofness. Where I work I come into contact with young ladies and yes, some of them, I think, would consider me handsome or maybe even hot...(for an older guy), but hot enough to sleep with...mmmm....I am not so sure but I would like to find out.

Dont get me wrong, women my own age are fantastic (Well in my limited experience. They are confident, sexually aware, experienced, open-minded, attractive and smart...but thats not what this is about. I really can't complain as I am having more sex, of a better quality, than ever in my life before at any age (My gf is the same age as me). Not only that but she is also an intellectual match for me, understands my life and my commitments etc, etc. But what a woman my age does not and cannot have is the combination of a sexually super-prime body and the freshness of naivety, innocence and inexperience - now thats indescribably hot (At least in my imagination).

But why am I so tempted, is it just sexual allure, or is it because these women don't yet have a cynical view on men (they still think at least one of us might be perfect lol). Is it just a male ego-stroking exercise, to reassure myself of my eternal manhood? Am I just pining for my youth and the fact that I didnt spend anywhere near enough time trying to fuck every gorgeous girl I ever met? Perhaps the previous paragraph let slip the truth....I want to be the teacher, the instructor, the de-flowerer of innocence...I want to be a father figure! OMG Freud was right we are all trapped in an Oedipal paradox!

So maybe it is that? Or maybe it is more about where I am in my own life. I feel sexier, more confident, more attractive, strong, capable and generally manly than ever before in my entire life. Not only that but the women of my own age, either a) Have kids and a partner or b) Want kids and a partner (Most women are Biological-clock detonated man-traps, between 33-40) or c) They have kids already but want an partner for old-age, not for years of sexual exploration and debauchery (Very few women but quite a lot of men choose to be alone in old-age). Even if they appear to just be out there having fun, being sexy, there is probably an agenda at work, even if it is a subconscious, instinctive one.

So for a man in his late 30's, the young, free, agenda-less, hot, horny young lady, with piercings (So many girls shave these days!!!), and playboy, car-seat covers is damn appealing. Times have changed and the girls seem more sexually aware, more sexually active and more sexually liberated and tolerant to males and our base instincts (Which may be base but they are the natural, worthy instincts we are blessed with). Basically it comes down to males being able to spread their seed until they are 70+ and biologically, ladies between 16 - 26, are the best biological bet for successful conception, so it is perfectly 'natural and practical'......But they are still half my age.......

Even having a daughter, has only changed my attitude in regard to my daughter. I am sure when she is a young lady, I may still be wondering what it would be like to sleep with her friends (being too honest now!)? Now I am sounding all 'American Beauty', but here I am and there it is. I can't justify these feelings or say them in polite conversation but 'boy' do they exist. I have no idea what it is like for women, but I would be really interested to know?

I know one thing though for sure, and although the power-balance would be unfair and although morally I know it would be wrong and despite the whole Oedipal thing, I cant stop thinking...

...If I get the chance to sleep with one of these young, gorgeous darlings, I will be honest, romantic and respectful and I will do everything in my aged power to give them the wildest, craziest, most passionate, fulfilling, sexual, sensual, erotic, hot horny night of pleasure they will ever have!

Thats what I would have liked an older woman to do to me when I was 20 (We didnt have cougars then or Stiflers Mum, only Mrs.Robinson!) So thats fair...right? Oh and fuck Oedipus!

I have tried to be honest about this un-pc and most-vexing of issues (For aging men!) and appreciate any feedback, comments, opinions, answers, resolutions, and 'offers from young ladies'!

Money Shots

It seemed silly to have lots of Masturbation Month pics and no money shots! AlthoughI dont have that many as they are notoriously difficult to time well. But at the risk of getting banned from Blogger, heres a couple and a few other miscellanous pics on the subject of mans great love affair with his own hand.

From the Under the Sheets pics... The unpublished climax to the Shower and Shave shots...

For a friend...

A tribute pic...

An oldie but a goodie...

A bonus cock shot, bye bye...

(Is it 'Have kinky sex with multiple partners month' yet???)

Masturbation Month Fantasy - Black Panties Act 2

So you slept with another guy? Despite my jealousy, the thought turns me on wildly. I want to know more, I want to know everything you did together, every last detail, I want to be able to imagine it vividly so I can masturbate furiously at the very thought of you and him having sex!

"Mmmm, you have been very naughty and I think you do need putting in your place. I start by going down you, i leave you alone for a few hours and you repay me by shagging the guy in the apartment opposite??! You're just too horny to keep your knickers on for more than a few hours at a time. Well I want what he had, firstly I want to see you in your frenchies and heels, parade for me. You look so hot, so innocent, but I know you are not, I know what a horny naughty girl you really are. You are like a wild animal, begging to be tamed."

I am sitting down, I pull you to me and touch you, admiring your silken flesh, running my fingers up and down you.

"Over my lap.!" I command, you look surprised but slowly, you descend to all fours, over my lap. I fondle your buttocks roughly, grabbing the flesh and digging my nails in. You can feel how hard I am on your belly. I pull my hand back and sensing the strike, you inhale sharply and flinch a little. I am just teasing...then smack! I strike my hand across both your buttocks hard, glancing off your swollen mound through your frenchies. You let out a moan and I do it again.

"This is for showing your pretty pussy to that guy". Smack! I pull aside your frenchies, exposing your sex, your buttocks are reddening and I can feel the heat. I smack you again, this time my hand clearly connects with your pussy, making you jump, leaving a smear of moisture on the palm of my hand. This time it is me who moans, overcome with arousal and desire.

"I want your mouth around my cock" I gasp, I want you to show me how well you can please me. You drop to your knees, enjoying the submissiveness and begin stroking my cock through my trousers, i pull my top off as you undo my jeans, the bulge of my erection, barely contained in my pants. You reach up and squeeze my nipples, causing me to shiver and twitch with arousal. Your hand cup my balls and stretch out the shaft of my newly exposed cock. It is straining to reach your mouth, as hard as can be, your tongue flicks the base of the glans and my head rolls back, eyes closed as your soft mouth slides down my hot, rigid cock.

You are insatiable as you take me in and it feels like you are trying to suck the very life out of me, my knees are weak and I cant resist the temptation to rock slowly back and forward in time with your movements, gently fucking your face.

"Thats enough payback" I say past the point of role-playing. "I need to fuck you now, I need to have hot, hard, horny, wild sex with you , I need to feel my cock in your cunt and your mouth on mine...;-)"

Masturbation Month Fantasy - Black Panties Act 1

As I think of you greeting me atthe door in black frenchies and heels, my breath is shallow and I can feel the familiar warm tingle of arousal in my groin. I want nothing more right now than to slip out of my trousers and shirt slip my hand inside my pants and think of you. The thought of that strong, agile, beautiful body of yours in just black frenchies turns me on so much I can hardly breathe.

What would I like to do to you?
What wouldn't I want to do to you!

Well as you are already undressed, I would first like to watch you as you explore your own body with your fingers, putting your fingers in your mouth and gently tracing circles around your breasts and slowly trailing towards your belly and sex. Slipping your hand into your frenchies, your eyes close and your mouth half opens as you feel your wetness. I am slowly undressing as I watch you, I am now in just my jockeys and the bulge of my erection is clearly visible as I slowly stroke myself through the soft fabric. As I swell, you push aside the thin material of your knickers to expose your swollen sex, glistening with arousal and you plunge your fingers in and out and brushing your clitoris in between.

My breathing is shallow and fast as I push down my pants, making my stiff erection pop back up once released. As I watch you sink further into pleasure, my hand is now stroking my hard-on, overwhelmed by the sight before me.I cant take it any more and I climb onto the bed. You reach out to touch me but silently I tell you 'no' as I move closer to you. I'm now on all fours over you, I stoop my head to kiss your neck and nuzzle your ear and to inhale the sweet fragrance of your arousal. I bid you to keep touching yourself as I move down towards your pert breasts, I pull your nipple into my mouth gently and begin to suckle and tug on it, whilst playing delicately with your other nipple using my thumband forefinger. The smell of your sex is overpowering, the heady musk fills my nostrils and I cant wait any longer.

Descending down your body one kiss at a time, I am confronted with your beautiful sex, I bite your inner thighs and around your lips, you can feel my tongue darting, its fleeting brushes, sending shivers right through you. Finally I gently run my tongue up your pussy, flicking your clitoris as I do so. Now I am almost beyond control as I lap and taste your sweet juices, my tongue traces patterns around your clitoris between warm, wet kisses that pull your clitoris ever so gently into my mouth, only to be released slowly through my lips. You are squirming now and the uncomfortable pleasure makes you instinctively move and try to pull a way in a mock movement. I pull you to me and plunge my tongue deep inside you, my hands are running free, massaging your ass, stroking your inner thigh, pushing my little finger into your belly button. I can feel you tremble and your pussy is now so swollen I know you are about to come. I increase the rhythm of my tongue lashing, You are fighting it but I wont let go, you begin to shudder and moan so loudly, I feel my prick jump with every sound and then with one long moan, you cum. You clamp your dancers legs around me and near suffocate me with your passion.

I lap gently at you until the shudders of orgasm calm down and you allow me to pull away. As I sit up, you see my cock is harder than ever and twitching in anticipation at what may happen next.......

Blue

Sometimes you wonder, why you put yourself out there, what do you want and what will it take to satisfy you?

Maybe its the weather, maybe its the mood of people around me but today the colour is most definitely blue.

Masturbation Month - Under the Sheets

I like to masturbate at least once a day and that is often at the end of the day. Pulling whatever blankets I can find over my head, I close my eyes in the darkness, adopt the familiar position, legs pulled up, right hand on cock, left on my right nipple and begin. Usually incorporating someone I might have seen on the street that day, a friend, a colleague, an internet amour, my girlfriend, sometimes surprising people cum to mind. Sometimes I do it for as long as possible, not wanting the reassuring pleasure to stop, occasionally I just go hell for leather, as the feeling requires.

Sometimes, especially during masturbation Month, I take a camera with me and record, another in a long line, off the wrist! Heres to many more...